Everyday culture
None of what follows is a rule. These are habits common in some contexts, varying by region, age and group, that simply make moving around smoother.
Greetings and address
- The greeting
- In informal settings a single kiss on the cheek is common between women, and between a man and a woman; between men it is usually a handshake. In work settings or with strangers, a handshake is always safe.
- Tú and usted
- First-name informality spreads fast, but with older people or in formal dealings usted remains usual until the other person signals otherwise.
Rhythms and punctuality
Lunch usually falls between one and three, and dinner considerably later than in many other countries. For work appointments or transport, punctuality is expected. For a social invitation to someone's home, arriving a few minutes late is common and not read as rude; arriving early, on the other hand, can be awkward.
Tipping and money
In table-service restaurants the bill often includes a suggested tip, which can be accepted, adjusted or declined without friction. At counter service, on buses or in taxis it is not an expectation. Carrying some cash remains useful outside the cities.
Fiestas Patrias
The 18th and 19th of September are irrenunciable and the whole country is on the move. It is a good time to see ramadas and traditional food, and a bad time to improvise transport or accommodation: everything gets booked weeks ahead.
Regional diversity and Indigenous peoples
Chile is not culturally homogeneous. Customs in the Andean north, the centre, the Mapuche south, Chiloé and Patagonia differ from one another, and Indigenous communities — Mapuche, Aymara, Rapa Nui and others — have their own history, language and relationship with the land. Visiting their places calls for the same attitude as anywhere: ask before photographing people or ceremonies, and do not treat living culture as an attraction.
In protected areas
Register on entry where asked, stay on marked trails, light no fires outside designated areas and carry all rubbish out. These are the rules that keep these places open. Fire is especially serious: much of central and southern Chile burns every summer.
Alcohol and driving
Chile enforces strict drink-driving legislation, with low thresholds and severe penalties. If the plan involves a winery or a long lunch, sort out transport before you set off.